Is Love: A Feeling or A Choice?

Love is something that is very hard to explain in words. But yes, this is a beautiful emotion that each one of us have lived/living. Not everyone who have this feeling have won the battle but yes they have felt the essence of this feeling.

When two people meet and see in the eyes of each other and started thinking about each other that is not love, that is a feeling of attraction. It creates the desire that forms the initial bond among them and yes unfortunately in this stage most of the young couples take the decision of spending life together and they will marry in this phase. This will create Chaos in their life and that charm, desire and feelings begins to Fade away, this will confuse them and they will think like that is this love really? 

No,.. This is not love this is just a little attraction which is being misunderstood with love. Love is such a pure feeling, A pure form of love does not expect any demands and complaints in return. This form of love only needs presence of that special person and nothing else in return.

Whereas, Love is a choice too, this is that situation when you have to choose between what is best for you and what is best for your parents? There you need to sacrifice your happiness and instead of choosing the love you want you choose the love that you will never get. Sometimes, people take these types of decisions just to make their partner feel jealous and worst. But they don't know that this decision of them is burying their life and this decision in pain, or in whatever situation they have taken will not have a good result in near future. This condition is the phase where love is a choice too.

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Love is not for playing or not for passing your spare time. You don't know that how hard for a person to get back normal into their life. Somepeope are not strong emotionally and they cann't bear the heartbreak mostly. This is that phase that totally change them some become violent while other choose to be silent. My point here is that Love does not hurt it is just those people who can not take Love seriously and move on and it is very hard for introverts to express their feelings and love. An introvert will love you the utmost, care you the hardest but if an introvert faces heartbreak this phase totally broke him/her. 

Misunderstandings are a part of life and yes if you are in a serious relationship then just do  a favor that give other hand a good chance to make a beat when you try to clap because a clap is not completed with a single hand both hands complete the clap. Similarly, misunderstandings are not clarified one sided give your partner a good chance to speak and if he/she does not able to speak but you know that the feelings are real then force them to speak out and try to speak with them but do not leave a person for just a stupid reason. Feelings are not replaced, Memories hurt like hell and tears won't stop. 

Let, Love be pure and a feeling that can be understood with the connection of eyes more than the language or a transaction of words.